February 2010

Tips for Moving Mom or Dad

Moving is one of life’s major stressors at any age. Families should be aware that moving a parent often times is surrounded by other major life stressors. As we age the losses seem to gang up on us, loss of health, loss of a spouse, or loss of friends. Losing our home of 20 plus years is another major change and loss. Families need to be sensitive to what circumstances surround their parents’ move.

Caring for a Parent

Caring for an aging individual, typically an aging parent, poses unique challenges that can be difficult for both parties to manage. Many caregivers dedicate so much of themselves to caring for a loved one that they ignore their own needs. It is essential for caregivers to take time to care for themselves, as well as their loved one. Virginia Morris, in her book, How To Care For Aging Parents, provides twelve steps to a healthy mindset for caregivers.